Tyndale Open Bible Dictionary

NURSE

A woman who took care of an infant that did not belong to her, or a man who took care of young children. The work was limited to the nursing and caring of an infant. Women usually took care of their own children, such as Sarah (Gn 21:7) and Hannah (1 Sm 1:23). A wet nurse often became a part of the family circle and had a special place. Rebekah had a nurse, and when she passed away, the woman was even mentioned in the biblical text: “Now Deborah, Rebekah’s nurse, died and was buried under the oak below Bethel. So it was named Allon Bacuth” (Gn 35:8, niv). Moses’ mother became his nurse, as she was being paid by Pharaoh’s daughter (Ex 2:7). Royal sons were cared for by nurses, as in the case of Joash, who was hidden with his nurse by Jehosheba his aunt (2 Kgs 11:2). Since Joash was hidden for six years and was seven when he acceded to the throne, Joash was about a year old when he was hidden—and his nurse must have been a wet nurse.

Royal sons received special care and were under the supervision of a nurse after they had been suckled. Children were nursed up to the age of three, and when they were weaned, there was a feast (Gn 21:8; 1 Sm 1:23-24). Thereafter, a nurse-teacher took charge of the youngster. Mephibosheth was five years old when his nurse fell with him, causing him to be lame (2 Sm 4:4). Naomi took care of her grandson as a nurse (Ru 4:16). It is probable that male nurses were used as teachers for the young aristocrats, such as we find in 2 Kings 10:1, when it is said that Ahab’s children had tutors (cf. also v 5). In this sense we must understand Moses’ reference to himself, too, as a “nurse”: “Did I conceive all these people? Did I give them birth? Why do you tell me to carry them in my arms, as a nurse carries an infant, to the land you promised on oath to their forefathers?” (Nm 11:12, niv). Paul saw himself, too, as a “nurse” to the church (1 Thes 2:7).