18 Don’t exchange a friend for something,

neither a true brother for the gold of Ofir.

19 Don’t deprive yourself of a wise and good wife,

for her grace is worth more than gold.

20 Don’t abuse a servant who works faithfully,

or a hireling who gives you his life.

21 Let your soul love a wise servant.

Don’t defraud him of liberty.

22 Do you have cattle? Look after them.

If they are profitable to you, let them stay by you.

23 Do you have children? Correct them,

and make them obedient from their youth.

24 Do you have daughters? Take care of their bodies,

and don’t be overly indulgent towards them.

25 Give your daughter in marriage, and you will have accomplished a great matter.

Give her to a man of understanding.

26 Do you have a wife who pleases you? Don’t throw her out.

But don’t trust yourself to one who is hateful.[fn]

27 Honour your father with your whole heart,

and don’t forget the birth pangs of your mother.

28 Remember that you were born of them.

What will you repay them for the things that they have done for you?