Jesus told a man what to expect if he went with Jesus. He told another man to follow Jesus immediately, not to wait until later.

Matthew 8:18-22

18 Jesus saw the crowd around him, but he needed to rest. So he told his disciples to take him by boat to the other side of the lake. 19 As they were walking toward the boat, a man who taught the Jewish laws came to him and said, “Teacher, I will go with you wherever you go.” 20 In order that the man might know what he could expect if he went with him, Jesus said to him, “Foxes have holes in the ground in which to live, and birds have nests, but even though I am the one who came from heaven, I do not have a home where I can sleep [MTY].” 21 Another man who was one of Jesus’ disciples said to him, “Sir/Lord, permit me first to go home. After my father dies I will bury him, and then I will come with you.” 22 But Jesus said to him, “Come with me now. God considers that people who do not have eternal life are dead [MET]. Let those people do the work of burying people who die.”