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Used in these topics: Family life and passing on faith
In this section, Paul continued to instruct the Colossians about the way that they should behave in order to please Christ. In this section, however, he was writing about how they should behave at home rather than within the Christian community. He gave instructions to six types of people: wives and husbands, children and parents, slaves and masters. His message was the same for all:
That people should submit to those who had authority over them,
That those who had authority should be considerate toward those under them.
Paul gave instructions to wives in 3:18, to husbands in 3:19, to children in 3:20, to parents in 3:21, to slaves in 3:22, and to masters in 4:1. Make sure you begin each of these verses in the same way.
Theme: Paul gave instructions to husbands and wives: that wives should be subject to their husbands, and husbands should love their wives.
Husbands, love your wives
Husbands, love your wife,
You husbands, each of you must love your wife,
Husbands: Here Paul is writing specifically to the married men. You may need to use the pronoun “you"(plural) in translating this, for example: “You believers who are married men.” In other languages it may be better to translate this “Each of you who is a married man.” Use whichever way is most natural in your language.
and do not be harsh with them.
and do not treat her harshly.
and treat her kindly.
and do not be harsh with them: One specific way that husbands can love their wives is by not treating them harshly. To treat someone harshly is the opposite of the qualities that Paul listed in 3:12 (compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience). It is best to translate this as a negative command: “do not…” But if it is difficult to translate it this way, you can translate it as a positive command. For example:
and be gentle with them (NCV)
οἱ ἄνδρες
(Some words not found in SR-GNT: Οἱ Ἄνδρες ἀγαπᾶτε τάς γυναῖκας καί μή πικραίνεσθε πρός αὐτάς)
Here Paul directly addresses the Husbands in the audience. Use a form in your language that indicates that the speaker is singling out a specific group of people as the intended audience of the following words. Alternate translation: [You husbands]
Note 1 topic: figures-of-speech / explicit
τὰς γυναῖκας
(Some words not found in SR-GNT: Οἱ Ἄνδρες ἀγαπᾶτε τάς γυναῖκας καί μή πικραίνεσθε πρός αὐτάς)
Here Paul does not explicitly state that husbands must love “their own” wives. However, Paul writes this sentence in such a way that the Colossians would have understood him to mean this. The ULT includes your because this is an essential part of what Paul is saying. Use a form in your language that specifies that Paul has each husband’s wife in mind. Alternate translation: [your own wives]
Note 2 topic: translate-unknown
μὴ πικραίνεσθε πρὸς
(Some words not found in SR-GNT: Οἱ Ἄνδρες ἀγαπᾶτε τάς γυναῖκας καί μή πικραίνεσθε πρός αὐτάς)
The phrase be embittered could refer to: (1) the husband doing or saying things that cause his wife to be bitter or upset with him. Alternate translation: [do not do what makes them bitter against you]; (2) the husband becoming bitter or upside with his wife for doing or saying certain things. Alternate translation: [do not become bitter against them]
Note: The OET-RV is still only a first draft, and so far only a few words have been (mostly automatically) matched to the Hebrew or Greek words that they’re translated from.
Acknowledgements: The SR Greek text, lemmas, morphology, and VLT gloss are all thanks to the CNTR.