OET interlinear 2 SAM 13:20

uW Translation Notes:

Note 1 topic: figures-of-speech / euphemism

הַ⁠אֲמִינ֣וֹן אָחִי⁠ךְ֮ הָיָ֣ה עִמָּ⁠ךְ֒

?,Amnon brother_of,your it_became (Some words not found in UHB: and=he/it_said to=her/it ʼAⱱīshālōm brother_of,her ?,Amnon brother_of,your it_became with,you and=now my_sister_of,my quiet brother_of,[is]_your he/it not take DOM heart_of,your to=the_word/thing/matter the=this and,she_dwelt Tāmār (and)_a,desolate_[woman] house_of ʼAⱱīshālōm's brother_of,her )

Absalom is referring to sexual relations in a polite way by using the phrase been with you. Depending on what is helpful in your language, you could use a polite way of referring to this in your language or you could state this plainly. Alternate translation: [Has Amnon your brother slept with you?]

Note 2 topic: figures-of-speech / idiom

אַל־תָּשִׁ֥יתִי אֶת־לִבֵּ֖⁠ךְ לַ⁠דָּבָ֣ר הַ⁠זֶּ֑ה

not (Some words not found in UHB: and=he/it_said to=her/it ʼAⱱīshālōm brother_of,her ?,Amnon brother_of,your it_became with,you and=now my_sister_of,my quiet brother_of,[is]_your he/it not take DOM heart_of,your to=the_word/thing/matter the=this and,she_dwelt Tāmār (and)_a,desolate_[woman] house_of ʼAⱱīshālōm's brother_of,her )

Absalom is using a common expression of his culture to mean that Tamar should not continue to think about what happened and be upset about it. If this phrase does not have that meaning in your language, you could use a comparable expression from your language that does have that meaning, or you could state the meaning plainly. Alternate translation: [Do not take this matter to heart] or [Do not dwell on this matter]

Note 3 topic: figures-of-speech / explicit

וְ⁠שֹׁ֣מֵמָ֔ה

(Some words not found in UHB: and=he/it_said to=her/it ʼAⱱīshālōm brother_of,her ?,Amnon brother_of,your it_became with,you and=now my_sister_of,my quiet brother_of,[is]_your he/it not take DOM heart_of,your to=the_word/thing/matter the=this and,she_dwelt Tāmār (and)_a,desolate_[woman] house_of ʼAⱱīshālōm's brother_of,her )

The meaning of the term desolate in this context is that Tamar remained unmarried because of her defilement. You could include this information if that would be helpful to your readers. Alternate translation: [and never married]